3 Reasons Why Mentoring Matters

I was hanging out with my girlfriends recently and as I looked around the room I was overwhelmed with a feeling of gratitude.  When these ladies came into my life I was overwhelmed with juggling my roles as “mom” to three preteen boys, as “wife” to a busy business owner, as “taxi driver” going back … Read more

Want to Create a Meaningful Bucket List? Ask Yourself This 1 Question

If you look up the words “bucket list” in the dictionary here’s the definition you’ll find: A list of things that one has not done before, but wants to do before dying. To put it another way-it’s the things you want to do before you ‘kick the bucket’! Some people create a list of goals, … Read more

How Seeing Your Life as One Big Jigsaw Puzzle Can Help You

Now that the weather has gotten colder and my outdoor activities are becoming fewer and fewer, I’ve pulled out the many boxes of jigsaw puzzles I’ve amassed over the years. What a gift they’ve been during this time of quarantine. I had forgotten how much I love doing them!  Recently I discovered that I’m a … Read more

Letting Yourself Off the Hook (Without Making Excuses)

There’s no time like holiday time to come down hard on ourselves. We mentally beat ourselves up by asking questions like: Did I bake enough? Did I buy enough? Did I decorate enough? Did I spread “glad tidings of joy” enough? Did I make it ‘til midnight to ring in the new year?  Self-criticism. Self-chastisement. … Read more

3 Things You Can Do Right NOW to Make Your Life Slow Down

I’ve been on a purging-my-house-of-unnecessary-things roll over the past six months. I thought the timing was perfect to get rid of “stuff” now that my kids have left the nest, and I’ve been staying home more due to COVID.   Old hockey gear-gone?! Broken toys-gone! Out-of-style clothes-gone! Unread books-gone! Bank statements from the 90’s-gone! At … Read more

Living Your Life With the Future in Mind: 8 Ways to Get Revved Up About What’s to Come

Regret is like a one-legged duck trying to swim across a pond. In other words…regret is a big fat waste of time!  Some people mourn the past for so long that they miss the good stuff that could be right up ahead of them and within their reach. They waste time wallowing in self-pity and … Read more

Use the Hours, Don’t Count Them: 10 Tips to Make the Most of Each Day

Recently I was listening to S-Town, one of my favorite podcasts, and I learned that many sundials have mottos on them.  Mottos like: Do not squander time, for that is the stuff life is made of. Time is flying, never to return. We are traveling each towards his sunset. Make the passing shadow serve thy … Read more

Are You a Thermostat or a Thermometer?

Are you changing the culture or is the culture changing you? To say 2020 has been one for the record books would be an understatement.  Not only has COVID rocked our world, now we can add rioting and name-calling candidates to the fray.     In the midst of all of this craziness do you feel like … Read more

Don’t Let Doing Scary Things Scare You

My thoughts on doing scary things… Maybe not always seeing the BIG PICTURE is a part of the plan.  Maybe barely seeing what’s a few feet in front of us is part of the process.  Maybe questioning our ability is part of growing. If we knew what was going to happen in the next hour, … Read more

How to Find Yourself Again: 7 Ways to Find the Person You Once Were

Ever look in the mirror and wonder where that care-free and fun-loving person from long ago went off to? Maybe the kids have left the house and you’re trying to find the person you once were before you took on the role of parent.  Maybe you’re juggling plates and putting out fires and in the … Read more